Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Little something;


The Prophet Muhammad said, may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him: Your Heaven lies under the feet of your mother 
(Ahmad, Nasai)

"Thy Lord hath decreed that ye worship none but Him, and that ye be kind to parents. Whether one or both of them attain old age in thy life, say not to them a word of contempt, nor repel them, but address them in terms of honor. And out of kindness, lower to them the wing of humility, and say: ‘My Lord! bestow on them Thy Mercy even as they cherished me in childhood' "

Well, today is not a mother's day or my mother's birthday but I just found this verse of Quran and also, hadith from Prophet Muhammad :) For me, everyday is a mother's day!

I love my mom and Igaduh gaduh biasa or gurau manja is normal to me. Well, of course not in the form of yelling or scolding or whatnot. The past weeks, I've a bit of emotional instability. I can't imagine a daughter who already became a mother now scold her own mother. Blaming the mom for everything, as an example, blaming her own mom because her baby daughter had swallow some methyl silicate or blaming her mother because of everything that has happened. That was unacceptable for me. Yes, it was.  

When i asked, why scold your mom. She said with no guilt in her face. That's how I rolled. That's how I treat my mom. She also said that although I scold my mom, I love her. And I was like :O So, you scold your mom and you never ever think of how she felt, and yet you say you love her. Astaghafirullah. Above are some verse in Quran that clearly said

"Whether one or both of them attain old age in thy life, say not to them a word of contempt, nor repel them, but address them in terms of honor"

Say not to them a word of contempt, nor repel them, but address them in terms of honor. So, is shouting can be classed as honor? The point here is, I am not pointing my fingers solely on the woman mentioned but to all of us and a great reminder for myself as well. Think again, we might not knowing or realize what we have said to our mother. Or sometimes, our actions that literally hurting them. We never think and bother about how they feel. But rather of how we feel and they should treat us the way we like it. 

We only have one mother in this world. The one and only that has brought us here in this world. Why can't we appreciate them. Well, we did but maybe we have to show more. So, I fell there's a need to say I love you, ibu to my mom every single day. What say you ? ;)

Monday, November 14, 2011

Hey you :)

This is what I thought about you ;)

Sunday, November 13, 2011

Thursday, November 3, 2011

Upside down


Its been ages. Yes, ages since my last post yang crave sangat sweeeeet foods and hoyeaahh! I managed to eat all of them minus the apple strudle. -___________-" I've been tweeting a lot lately, okay maybe not lately but most of the time. Haha and reading stuff as well as watching. One issue that caught my eyes, Seksualiti Merdeka. So, before anything let me tell you what exactly is seksualiti merdeka.From what I've read, Seksualiti Merdeka is to allow gay and lesbian relationship in Malaysia. Simplistic definition.

I know I am nobody to discuss about this or to raise my voice but I think this is absurd. You know, ludicrous. To actually support all gay and lesbian, should be strictly prohibited. As a Muslim, I don't agree with this and yes some says, they don't choose to be gay or who they are going to fall for but what are we doing? Stands for their rights? As if we are full of love and care and try to protect them, to say that they should have someone to actually support them. But ladies and gentlemen, this is not the way. Indeed they need someone to help them. We as intellectual, and responsible human, and as for me, a Muslim, Yes, we should support them but not supporting them to continue and think that yes, its okay for you to do this and yadaa yadaaa, instead giving them some food for thought. Giving counseling and direct them to the right path. Allah is everywhere and Allah memegang hati hati mereka, InsyaAllah they will change :) Supporting is not helping but instead, making the world upside down. They are not guilty, they just need someone to help them and we can help them but in a right way lah kan :)

The rational here is that,  what kind of activity or campaign that will be done or had been done should know its limitation boundary. Think of Malaysian sensitivity. Have some sense and think before everything become haywire. I know, this is a very sensitive issues to be blogged about. Maybe, I'll lost my followers or I don't know what will happen in anytime soon. I just feel to write. For now, I just pray that Malaysia is safe and Allah protect all of us in Malaysia. Amin :)